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Bridal showers have become a very relaxed, casual event over the years but you still need to know some basic bridal shower etiquette so you do not offend anyone. Since there are going to be different groups at the shower – friends, college friends, family, coworkers, etc. – it is important that you understand how everyone interacts, especially with the family around. If the bride is from a conservative family they might place a lot of importance on etiquette.

Usually it’s the Maid of Honor who organizes and plans the bridal shower. If she lives out of town, it’s usually fine for someone to take her place. But don’t take over without making sure it’s okay with her – always ask before assuming anything.

Traditional bridal shower etiquette says that the shower should take place four to six weeks before the wedding date. This is for practical purposes because the bride will get busier as the ceremony date draws closer.

Bridal showers are supposed to be small, intimate gatherings. Etiquette says there should be no more than ten to twenty people. Ideally the guest list should include the mothers of the groom and bride, the wedding party, the sisters of the bride and groom, and close friends of the bride Check up with the bride if she would like to invite more, though. Ask each of them to take up a certain responsibility, even if it’s just small like handling the party games or favors. This will make the guests feel like an important part of the day.

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